Getting a boner should not deter you from wrestling. Women understand, they are in the game too and that every now and then theres a stiffy pointing around like a water diviner. I thought the same as you and give sessions a wide birth. Then my views changed dramtically, i met up with a woman on craigslist, i had posted an ad and found someone. She was incredible, she was a submissive just like me and when she see my advert she jumped at the chance. She gave the match 100%, was in better condition then me and as strong as a ox. Now when wrestling competitively like we did, you are in a fight, theres no distraction of even thinking sexual, thing is your wrestling, in wasnt sensual it was wrestling. The memories of her squeezing me now that that is the golden ticket. This is only my interpretation of it. I wore a wrestling singlet, so its hard to hide that kind of thing. She wore a skintight sleeveless spandex catsuit, she went about 10 stone and was about 5ft7. The only time i got aroused with my time with her, is after about 25 minutes of wrestling. I asked her to do some pressups, she did. Seeing her in that tight suit doing 20 pressups aroused me some how, i even mentioned it, and tried covering it up lol. But she said i dont mind if you get a hard on. The whole way through the 1 hour match she hungrily stared at it, lol. I have no idea if i was in fact popping a boner during the proceeds of the match. You should try it, its amazing. And dont worry about stiffys, just do it!